When I was in my forties, I was warned that sponsors felt my age was a precedent over my abilities. I was dropped. The new target is millennials, I was told.
Fast forward to my fifties; I was able to redefine my career and created a new role I loved and coveted. This new role, like any job, did come with challenges. I was never accepted into the club. I had to develop tough skin, and thank God for all of the inner work I do to strengthen my self-worth. One personality refused to look me in the eyes for over two years. I was virtually non-existent.
So, I thought to myself, "maybe it is time for a "tweak," my friends were doing it and seemed quite happy with the results.
Before I begin to tell my story, I am not here to judge anyone who loves beauty injections. Fit Your Style was designed on the core beliefs that you do what is best for you - period.
I started my injection treatments and developed over-arching eyebrows, and one eye bigger than the other. I was told that could happen, and an adjustment was made.
For some time, I did feel more beautiful, more youthful, and confident. Then, unbeknownst to me, I came to depend on the magic vial on a conscious level. Over time, I would go for routine treatments and found my face was altered and I had repeated issues with my eye being smaller than the other. (It is known as eye drooping) I also started to experience my face would "swell" when I traveled to LA for work. I stopped eating food on the plane I thought was triggering this issue. By the time I was in front of my makeup artist for work on the red carpet, my eyes would be so swollen and distorted.
My last Oscar's role held the most responsibility. I was under stress and had another very intense flareup. I was on Benedryl, hemorrhoid cream for my eyes, you name it, we tried it. Anything to calm my puffiness and swollen face.
I returned home after the most successful event. As an introvert, I always go through a "phase" of seclusion and calm to balance out the events' frenzy. I woke up to massive scratching of my palms; I was still drowsy and just kept scratching. When I finally couldn't take it anymore, I woke up and went into the bathroom to discover I was completely covered in hives and my face was utterly distorted. It was shocking to see. My husband rushed me to the emergency room. I was convinced I had "bed bugs" from my condo. Now my condo was lovely; it is all I could think of that could cause this to happen.
When I entered the emergency room, the nurse asked right away if I was under stress. I laughed and said yes, I was coming off of significant pressure. Upon meeting my doctor, I said, " Doctor, do I have bedbugs?" He said, " Jennifer, you have stress." That was the defining moment where I realized I need to redesign my life; once again. Nothing was worth what I was enduring. I was diagnosed with "spontaneous urticaria," a fancy name for hives that could occur at any time. This outbreak is not caused by traditional allergies, as I also went to an allergy specialist.
I was sent to an urticaria specialist who could not understand why I experienced these outbreaks as I didn't fit the general age. Her answer was, "Take Benadryl every day." Every day, I asked? My thoughts were, "Thank you, Next."
I wound up having them for ten months - in and out of walk-in clinics and continue to have lessor episodes to this day. I have photos, but I am not sharing them, for they are difficult to view.
Here is what I learned:
My allergist shared urticaria is triggered by heat and sun: Interestingly, my major flareups occur in California and Florida.
Nearly one year later, I had a breakthrough when I sought out a well-known physician specializing in beauty injections. I was told, " Botox can potentially cause or trigger Chronic Urticaria. You are at high risk for this type of experience." I finally have my answer!
I started researching and found many resources on the subject: Here are a few for your review.
Long Term Side Effects:
The bottom line, I encourage you to be your own health advocate. Each time I don't "listen" to my body, I'm given a health issue to deal with.
Now, I embrace my beauty lines, honoring my face with facial yoga and natural oils, and calming my body with Reiki sessions.
Here are some of my favorite resources:
Facial Yoga Course:
A daily and fast way to strengthen your face, naturally!
Natural Skin Care:
Pink Quartz Roller by Be Kind:
Not all rose quarry rollers are alike! My favorite is from Love Your Mother Boutique.
This is amazing when you are having urticaria face swelling It calms and cools the skin!
I hope this blog was helpful! Use in good health!
Stay Safe & Be Well,
This year, I was invited to attend the 2016 Celebrity Connected Oscar Suites.
Celebrity Connected is considered the “Who’s Who“ in gifting suites. Guests included: Corbin Bleu of High School Musical, Jiff Pom the dog, Cameron Monaghan - “Ian” from Shamless, Ginuwine, and so many more singers, actresses and models.
Tommy Geraci and I, were greeted by our adorable handlers, @aijalon_skye and @glitzysmiles. A “handler” is someone who holds a sign, and as you go through the room meeting people, they know your name and who you represent. In this case, I am a proud member of 411 voices.
Tommy and I walked the red carpet and then were escorted into the gifting suite. We were immediately given champagne and skincare. I could tell this was going to be fun! It took us several hours to make our way through the crowded room. As an American living in Toronto, it struck me how many companies were Canadian!
Some of my favorite stops were:
Skinny Pasta – eat pasta and stay skinny! Featured on the Dragons Den. High protein fresh pasta, Gluten free, non GMO and DELICIOUS!
PINK KARMA and their beautiful jewelery.
Freida Anti-aging Skincare (As seen on Dragon's Den) was a hoot! I can’t believe how my skin feels after using her 100% natural products and she is from St. Catherines, Ontario! www.zoespa.ca
It was an amazing time spent with so many innovative companies!
In my world, there are two dreaded clothing styles: bathing suits and jeans. Before you react, knowing I am an advocate of positive body image, I am just being honest, that I truly don’t enjoy shopping for these items. It’s not a matter of what others will think, in terms of how I look, its is a matter of how I FEEL in them. So when Lisa Simmons, of Lemonberry invited me to a jeans media event, I cringed.
Lemonberry is a boutique inspired by NYC. I felt immediately at home. There is a key focus of eco-friendly, non-toxic, sustainable and Canadian products.
I haven’t purchased jeans in over 12 years, my last pair was bought in Chicago on a pre-baby get away with my husband. Fast forward, I use those jeans as my “guide,” striving to ensure those jeans can still fit! Bootlegs never go out of style, right?
Back to Lisa, I shared with her I haven’t worn jeans for 12 years and am really very “anti-jeans” for I find them to be very constricting and difficult for my body shape (Goddess number 3 from my bestselling book “Find Your Inner Goddess” - formerly known as a “Pear shape). Lisa was shocked and took my hesitance in stride. She was convinced I would find a pair to fit my style ;).
The shop is so adorable and inviting. I was welcomed by a bubbly staff and was directed to Lisa. She was aware of my “fear” over this activation and made me feel welcomed. She took one look at me and offered a size selection to Dish Duer, the jean vendor.
Dish Duer a form a “technical denim,” designed in Vancouver. The jeans have a “Co2 neutral softness” by Edelweiss technology. As a result, the beechwood fiber from Austria is carbon neutral.
The vendor and Lisa selected two pairs of jeans and styles for me to try. The first pair went on without a hitch, but the rise was a little off. I was completely impressed they fit! The second pair went on like a dream. The irony is they are “skinny” jeans and I would never have chosen them for my shape.
The fabric is moveable, meaning I could even perform exercises in them! I couldn't believe the mobility and comfort. As someone who lives in active wear or dresses, these jeans finally gave a new definition to my wardrobe.
We also chose black denim. It is called “Forever Black” which is a blend of recycled and sustainable fibres, this fabric has unparalleled colour retention. Patent pending colour-lock technology that seals in the colour so that after 20 washes there is no colour fading! So impressive!
That’s was the fastest 15 minutes of my changing room life!
Lisa then introduced me to Amy's Place Handmade. Handmade candles and other beautiful things. Part of my swag bag was a beautiful spruce candle. The scents are so pure. She also makes a “Coco Chanel” scent so I knew we would hit it off.
My swag bag was loaded with other goodies including Lisa’s of LemonBerry own signature pink lipgloss, my go to on the run, as well as, cute gloves from PreLoved, proudly sustainable and made in Canada.
Overall, it was just a positive experience breaking down my own ‘style fears’ and validating that when in doubt reach out to an expert.
LemonBerry is located at: 2 Orchard Heights Blvd #10 Aurora L4G 3W3 905 503-2121
Dublin Calling Media Event
Oh me lucky night, when I was invited to attend the Dublin Calling opening media event to profile their new location at their location on 250 Adelaide street West!
www.dublincallingto.com - 416-452-7317
When we walked in we were greeted to a very festive welcoming. Men were concentrating on their darts skills and women in green beads, hats and feather headbands.
I found a table that gifted me with a Irish hat, candle, beads and St. Patrick’s Day press on nails – this set the tone for the night that this was going to be FUN!
The new space is large and I had a concern that like many “pubs” it would feel generic. This was dispelled by having niche areas such as the dart location, shoot pool, bar and tables. I found a table in the corner and immediately the pub became a full house.
Dublin Calling is known for its TALL daiquiri’s which was fresh and delicious... did I say BIG?
The pub serves up traditional pub fare but with a signature Irish twist!
Signature fried macaroni, which I never tasted before was pure cheddar delight! So crispy and crunchy on the outside with a soft inside of melted cheese. It became my husband’s favorite selection. I became partial to the jumbo fried pickles, drizzled in dill sauce. I kept laughing about how many workouts I would need after the fact, but it was worth every bite!
All pubs have their take on “wings” but these wings were like nothing I ever tasted before!
I tasted the KungPow, encrusted in crushed peanuts and the Garlic Parm, sprinkled generously with fresh parm cheese. Truly one of a kind flavors! The food went on and on from Corned Beef wraps, signature potatoes, Garlic bread was again, like no other garlic bread I have ever tasted! It was one delicious taste after another.
One week later, and I am still craving!
For more information visit their web site and take advantage of their *Free Admission Guest List, before midnight by signing up on line!
School Principals around the globe are sending letters home to mothers, banning the wearing of PJ's to drop off their children to school - to show "respect" and teach values.
I was on the set of a morning TV show preparing for my segment when the host shared, off camera, she received a letter from her children’s school boycotting mothers from wearing their pajamas at drop off in the morning, explaining it was a sign of disrespect. I immediately balked at this “judgement” and went on about my day.
In the evening I saw several style handles sharing fashion photographs of models wearing what is now coined “pajama dressing.” Moments later, a Cleveland news outlet shared a link from the UK, again following the theme of boycotting mothers from pajama dressing. At that moment, I felt the nerve had hit on a global level, having learned of this only 8 hours earlier.
As a mother and an entrepreneur, this infuriated me so much that I got up in the middle of the night to write this blog. We won’t even go into the whole “freedom of rights” aspect of this boycott. Let’s dig deeper.
I am a proud PJ wearer to drop off at school. I have seen all kinds of fuzzy PJ bottoms worn underneath coats as mother’s dash to get Suzy and Johnny to school in time.
Here is my beef with this boycott:
We see schools proudly place the “word of the month" on the school billboard for all local community to see; Empathy. Compassion. Perseverance. What about judgment??
Day in and day out, in the international news, we walk a fine line around the judgment of others; teaching society and our children this is “wrong”, yet we are condemning polka dot bottoms to be seen as a sign of disrespect?
A huge percentage of my clients are mothers. I know of their struggles with body image, the horror of swimsuits to jeans, and overall acceptance. Many are exhausted, rushing from one point to another. Checking off the box that yes, children are at school safe and sound, now I can move onto the next task.
What disservice and disrespect to be judged by schools, when in fact, this “pajama dressing movement” is seen on the Runway to the Realway. This trend now has “attached” to jean shops for this loungewar to be purchased as exercise wear, sleepwear or daywear. WAY TO GO MOMS for having the courage to wear your PJ bottoms, showing confidence for some, and for others a sign we are simply HUMAN trying to get by.
We encourage our children to EARN spirit pajama days at school, which is associated with fun and creativity of one’s own style. Talk about a mixed message to our youth.
Hollywood’s celebrities, such as Kate Hudson and Woody Harrelson for the premier of Hunger Games MockingJay Part 2, flexed their power by wearing pajamas onto the red carpet, capturing the attention of media outlets such as Vanity Fair. Hugh Hefner – need I say more? The male smoking jacket is the ultimate status symbol of, "I can do what I want, when I want."
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“We’re used to seeing our movie stars in various states of undress, but something about seeing them in pajamas on the red carpet stirs inevitable discomfort—and titillation. – Vanity Fair”
So I ask. Why can’t our amazing mothers flex their own power? These women should be placed onto a red carpet pedestal, for they GET THINGS DONE! Queens of multi-tasking, many without the help of a nanny, cook or car/driver.
Ladies, put your big girl PJ's on, head high, walk tall, and hail the POWER of the PJ! @fityourstyle #PJWay #PowerPJ
I am an entrepreneur, and yes tomorrow I have the LUXURY of wearing my PJ's to drop my daughter off to school. I have earned that right, working long and hard hours, so if I need a break or consider this to be a positive in my life, so be it!
So ladies, put your big girl PJ's on, head high, walk tall, and hail the POWER of the PJ! #PJWay #PowerPJ
Maybe you’ll see me, I will be in a fuzzy 2 piece leopard ensemble. ;)
Judge less. Love more.
It was truly a privilege to serve as the emcee for the 35th Anniversary of the Terry Fox, Marathon of Hope in Oak Ridges. I was asked by Glemena Bettencourt, also known as THE Terry Foxer, having spent a month with Terry and also becoming friends with his family. Glemena has kept her promise to Terry, to continue his journey and to share his words and memory with others across Canada.
What was equally important, was having my family with me for the event. My daughter, Arden is a competitive cheerleader and flag football player. My husband, Mike is a half marathon runner and also has prostate cancer. He lost both his father and brother to lung and brain cancer. We have participated in the run/walk in their honour for the last 5 years.
The day started off as a stormy Saturday, in which the clouds parted just before the event was to begin. I shared this was Terry’s doing, allowing the participants to have a bright and clear pathway.
We chanted our determination would not be dampened by any rain! Our courage would remain strong! Our commitment would not change - pending any weather changes!
At 21 years old Terry ran 5,373 kilometers for 143 days which equates to a full marathon every day!
Famed Richmond Hill resident, two times Olympic winner and three-time world champion, Elvis Stojko, cut the ribbon to begin the race. He shared how he used to ride his dirt bikes in this community and now he inspires others in his backyard with his passion, purpose and healthy lifestyle.
The Canadian band, The Derek Christie Band, entertained the crowd and played their amazing tribute to Terry Fox called, “What Makes You Run.” As the band played, there wasn’t a dry eye or a goose bump free body. The song touches the true essence of Terry’s message. Derek also shared he is a survivor of Cancer, and that the song and his participation is very personal.
Richmond Hill Councilor, Vito Spatafora, continued to set the atmosphere of inspiration, with his heartfelt speech about his own journey with prostate cancer, and encouraging men to not turn a blind eye to health and make it a priority.
“Even if I don’t finish we need others to continue. It’s got to keep going without me. “ – Terry Fox
The Terry Fox Foundation has a pledge to raise 35 million dollars this anniversary year. That equals one dollar per Canadian. To learn more about the initiative, please go to http://www.terryfox.org/
For more information on Glemena: https://www.facebook.com/glemena?fref=ts
Derek Christie Band: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0bLdrh3ttQ
This year I had an opportunity to meet Lani Netter, known as a producer and a philanthropist. What impressed me the most about Lani is that she focuses much of her efforts on charitable organizations that have an organic and global impact.
This week, during the Asian World Film Festival, I am working with Lani Netter and the social media correspondents with 411 voices in order to turn a spotlight on many worthy endeavors, mainly the Roots of Peace and Red Cross Organization.
Roots of Peace was founded by Heidi Kuhn and helps some of the world’s most vulnerable local economies after conflict. They support both individuals and local communities to renew livelihoods and business by transforming minefields into flourishing farmland.
I loved the idea that Heidi, a mother was inspired by the work of Princess Diana and it became the catalyst for her creating Roots of Peace in order to create global attention. She envisions the issues associated with landlines as curable and “removable.”
In addition to Roots of Peace, the Red Cross will be placed on center stage during the Global Change Gala. With a performance by Josh Moreland, the gala is centered on global efforts of the Red Cross. One needs not think far and wide to see the impact of the Red Cross, especially in light of the recent earthquakes in Chili and Nepal and hurricanes that have impacted the east and west of North America.
Charity Buzz is an online auction that gives social media attention to worthy organizations. The Red Cross will be the recipient of proceeds from Charity Buzz via the Asian World Film Festival. See all of the auction items listed via https://www.charitybuzz.com/AsianWorldFilmFestival.org.
I would like to take an opportunity direct you to a few of my favorite of the offerings. First how terrific for a young medical student to work alongside quality doctors who are serving children in situations of desperation. Children of War Foundation's mission is to provide access to donated transformative surgical care to children living with a physical deformity or injuries that cannot be treated in their home country.
Next, dine at one of two very special and notable places in the Los Angeles area – Nobu - Malibu and SPAGO of Beverly Hills. And, who would refuse an opportunity to bid for travel to either Napa Valley or Fiji! You can bid on these fabulous auctions, too!
See how the bidding is going – click here!
Remember the donations received could result in great proceeds for the Red Cross – which translates in to help around those the world for those who are most vulnerable.
I have the fortunate pleasure of wearing “multiple hats” within my brand; being a fitness and lifestyle expert. Two years ago, I crossed into the world of social media in way I never imagined would change my life. I began getting involved in social media communities, sending in video and comments for the Ricki Lake show. I found my navigation in social to be awkward and elementary, but laughing my way through it! This led me to being asked to serve as a lifestyle & fitness expert for a major Hollywood entertainment show.
One month later after the show aired, I was asked to join an exclusive group known as the TWITTERARITTI. This is a group selected by a gentleman in the social industry, leading the way of merging social media, on line content with traditional TV, #SocialTV. This role has led me to the Grammys, Emmys, Billboards, BAFTAS, and Golden Globes supporting ET NOW, Insider and Access Hollywood, along with Garth Brooks and various movie premiers.
For the second year in a row I have been invited to contribute to VANITY FAIR SOCIAL CLUB: The inner-sanctum of Vanity Fair’s creative services troupe. Each year, Vanity Fair hosts CAMPAIGN Hollywood, a week long series of VIP events for invited influencers, a series of VIP events with its exclusive advertising partners leading up to the Oscars. My job is to report tweet, post, film or vine the information. The week events are held at the exclusive WE WORK Building in LA.
We were also supporting ACCESS HOLLYWOOD and they event built us our own set to set for the week!
The week began with a bit of a bump. My luggage never arrived to LAX. The next day I was fortunate to have clothing from a sponsor CABI, delivered to my LA address to save me my first day.
My first panel was from the architect that built the Vanity Fair party into the most coveted event worldwide during Oscar week. Walking us through the history of the historic parties and iconic moments throughout the years. Followed by beauty tips from Armani Beauty Director, Tim Quinn.
The evening was all mine and we were invited the beautiful host Barbara Lazaroff, Owner of the world famous SPAGO to enjoy the Chinese New year at her restaurant CHINOIS known for its Asian Fusion food.
We enjoyed delicious food, friend and conversations! Colorful dancers all in celebration of the New year! Psst Nigel from dancing with the Stars was there too ;) I was introduced to famed celebrity chef and designer, Jaime Laurita who was so personable and fun! It was a beautiful night for all!
I came home and had a huge project due for one of my sponsors. It was exhausted. It took me over 4 hours to write 5 pages. I would type and out my head down on the pillow. I thought about getting up a at 4 am to complete the take but I knew I just had to push through the challenge and get the job done. It reminded me how strong we can be if we put our minds to it
The next day I got THE call...THE CALL! The one where you are being requested to work the red carpet!
I was crying. So overwhelmed that my luggage was still missing, that I got the “dream call” but I was so unprepared. I was in the mindset to say no. It was my girlie, maria, who said do what you have to do. I am forever grateful to her for that response!
I bought a dress in 7 minutes flat at Ross for Less. $14.99 to boot! Finally, we got the suitcase back as well so things were coming together!
It is a thrilling time, to amp up my skill set, and release my fears! When you are on the red carpet there is no room for errors! It is a hyper speed fast pace where you must be on your toes and on your toes you are, you feet HURT afterwards! My assignment was the private party for the cast and crew of Boyhood.
It is imperative to do research to come up with “original” content on the talent from the movie. All of my pre work went out the window when we learned of our position on the carpet. We were the last to interview the talent and had to redo our questions to be fast and concise. I started asking the cast and crew of boyhood to share their style in a #Hashtag. I was thrilled when Patricia Arquette laughed and answered #OverAlls!
On Friday, we spent the day covering #Loreal Dry Bar, Louise Roe new book, Chrysler tour as well as young entrepreneur panel. A full and fast paced day!
Friday night was a delicious dinner at the famed Beverly Wilshire Hotel , home to the movie pretty woman . We had a delicious meal at the Blvd., the hotel restaurant.
The food was delicious and with such sophisticated atmosphere with a jazz singer the winding blowing through the windows overlooking Wilshire blvd. Truly an enchanted evening.
Saturday work included Tachen book highlighting the last 40 years of Saturday Night Live: the book
VFSC and ACCSS took care of our every need – from “swag: vending machines, food sweets and unlimited champagne, from Food Ink Grocerie and Victoria _coffee, they kept us full and happy all week long to say the least! The caterers walked 7 miles a day, taking care of our needs! (insert photos)
It was time to pick up our jewelry by celebrity jeweler, Mark Lash . Off we went to the suite to choose and be stylized. His work takes my breath away, each and every time! Diamonds truly are a girl’s best friend!
On Saturday night, I was invited to a movie premier for my dear friend, Sergio Navarretta, who ironically is Canadian and was debuting his film in Hollywood at Mann Chinese Theatre! The movie, entitled “ The Colossal Failure of the Modern Relationship” starring Enrico Colantoni We loved the movie! Love, passion, heartbreak with delicious food and wine! What a beautiful way to support my friend and his film!
SUNDAY Oscars day!
We got up at the crack of dawn to arrive for hair and makeup and the Wilshire Hotel.
Created videos and social support for Vitamix, New Balance and Viva Vantage paper towels all before noon!
It was time to get busy! Focus and report on the red carpet and award show. I don’t think my eyes left my phone for hours! It is such a super fast pace but I wouldn’t want it any other way.
When the show was over. I get a wave of sadness that comes over me. I have grown to love these people as family over the years. We spent so much concentrated time together. They truly inspire me on so many way. I leave more of my heart in LA each and every time.
I said to my boss, until next time and his response.. you have no idea ;) Stay tuned and thank YOU for all of your love and support!
To Your Health,
Jennifer Ettinger and Kyro Parry demonstrate with a blind-fold test on Rogers TV "Daytime" to see if Rhinoz Solutions pheromone scents really work.
Jennifer Ettinger is asked to put YOUNIQUE to the test. Is this "fiber mascara" different than anothers?
I was asked to try YOUNIQUE mascara from a referral of a friend and client. She introduced me to her friend, Melissa Topp, and I made the purchase. I have to be honest, I am very fortunate that I receive a lot of swag and thought, do I really want to invest in this? The price was only $35.00 but I was skeptical.
I bought the mascara. At first I didn’t see any difference. Melissa educated me that gel, fiber, gel was the process and encouraged me to watch videos on You Tube to see make up artists tricks of the trade.
Once I got the hang of it, I noticed the difference then other “ fiber mascaras” I had tried. I have used several in the past but I didn’t fall in love enough to want to purchase again.
What I did notice, right away, was the intense pigment of my eyes. I love the intensity of the black. It was highlighting my eyes. Once I learned the pattern, I started to really see a difference in my eye intensity and length.
When it was time to prepare for the Oscars, My makeup artist couldn’t believe the intensity and lash length from Younique!
Melissa also told me to use the cute case for glasses or pens what a fun idea. I love the look of the case and will certainly use the case for this purpose!
Don’t just take my word for it! Take the TV review from news station here.